Recommended Books

Arp, David and Arp, Claudia, 10 Great Dates to Energize Your Marriage, 1997
Arp, David and Arp, Claudia, 10 Great Dates for Empty Nesters, 2004
Arp, David and Arp, Claudia, 10 Great Dates Before You Say "I Do", 2003
Baker, Ford, Time Out for a Better Marriage: The Husband Guide: Volume I, October 13, 2013
Bercht, Anne, My Husband’s Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me, 2007
Stefanie Carnes and Mari A. Lee, Facing Heartbreak: Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts, Oct 16, 2012
Claudia black et al, Intimate Treason: Healing the Trauma for Partners Confronting Sex Addiction, 2012
Cassella, Lynn, Making Your Way After Your Parents’ Divorce, 2002
Mark Chamberlain, PhD and Geoff Steurer, Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity, Mar 9, 2011
Coleman, Joshua, Imperfect Harmony: How to Stay Married for the Sake of Your Children and Still Be Happy, 2003
DeAngelis, Barbara. (1992). Are You the One For Me? New York: Bantam
Rita DeMaria, Sari Harrar , 7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever, 2006
Doherty, William. Take Back Your Marriage. New York: Guilford Press, 2001
Fisher, Bruce , Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends, 9th edition, 1998
Fisher, Helen, (1992). Anatomy of Love: The Natural History of Monogamy, Adultery and Divorce. New York: Norton.
Fisher, Roger, Getting to Yes: How to Negotiate Agreement Without Giving In, 2nd edition, 2003
Ford, Debbie, Spiritual Divorce, 2001
Forward, Susan. When Your Lover is a Liar. New York: HarperCollins, 1999
Glass, Shirley, Not "Just Friends": Protect Your Relationship from Infidelity and Heal the Trauma of Betrayal, 2002
Goldsmith, Barton, The Happy Couple: How to Make Happiness a Habit One Little Loving Thing at a Time, December 1, 2013
Gordon, Lori. Passage to Intimacy. New York: Fireside, 2000
Gottman, John M. with Silver, Nan. Why Marriages Succeed or Fail… and How You Can Make Yours Last. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1994
Gottman, John M. & Silver, Nan. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York: Crown, 2000
Gottman, John. and Joan DeClaire. (2001). The Relationship Cure. New York: Crown
Gottman, John PhD, What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal
John PhD Gottman and Nan Silver, What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal, Sep 4, 2012
John Gottman Ph.D. and Julie Schwartz Gottman, And Baby Makes Three: The Six-Step Plan for Preserving Marital Intimacy and Rekindling Romance After Baby Arrives…, Jan 22, 2008
Gray, John. Mars and Venus in the Bedroom. New York: HarperCollins, 2001.
Grenier, Dr. Guy, The 10 Conversations You Must Have Before You Get Married (and How to Have Them), Published: 2013
Hendrix, Harville. Getting the Love You Want. New York: Harper & Row, 1990
Haltzman, Scott and Foy DiGeronimo, Theresa, The Secrets of Happily Married Women: How to Get More Out of Your Relationship by Doing Less, 2008
Haltzman, Scott and Foy DiGeronimo, Theresa, The Secrets of Happily Married Men: Eight Ways to Win Your Wife’s Heart Forever, 2005
Harley, Willard F., He Wins, She Wins: Learning the Art of Marital Negotiation, October 1, 2013
Harley, Willard Jr., Fall in Love Stay in Love, 2001
Dr. Jay, Julie Kent-Ferraro, Phil Gigante, Surprised by Love: One Couple’s Journey from Infidelity to True Love, 2012
Johnson, Sue, Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love, 2008
Johnson, Sue, Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships – 2013
Leman, Dr. Kevin, Sex Begins in the Kitchen: Creating Intimacy to Make Your Marriage Sizzle, 2013
Love, Patricia and Stosny, Steven, How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It: Finding Love Beyond Words, 2007
Patricia Love, Jo Robinson, Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking,1995
Schaeffer, Brenda, Is It Love or Is It Addiction: The Book That Changed the Way We Think About Romance and Intimacy, (Mar 27, 2009)
Smalley, Erin, Little Book of Great Dates: 52 Creative Ideas to Make Your Marriage Fun, September 20, 2013
Lerner, Harriet Goldhor (1993). The Dance of Deception, New York: HarperCollins
Leman, Dr. Kevin Sex Begins in the Kitchen, 2000
Levine, Janice & Markman, Howard, Eds. Why Do Fools Fall in Love? Experiencing the Magic, Mystery, and Meaning of Successful Relationships. New York: John Wiley & Sons, 2000
Love, Pat. The Truth about Love: The Highs, the Lows, and How You Can Make It Last Forever. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2001
Love, Pat with Robinson, Jo. Emotional Incest: What To Do When a Parent’s Love Rules Your Life. New York: Bantam, 1991
Love, Pat & Robinson, Jo. Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking. New York: Plume/Penguin, 1995
McCarthy, Barry and McCarthy, Emily, Rekindling Desire: A Step-by-Step Program to Help Low-Sex and No-Sex Marriages, 2003
Sharon Meers, Joanna Strober, and Marguerite Gavin, Getting to 50/50: How Working Parents Can Have It All by Sharing It All – and Why It’s Good for Your Marriage, Your Career, Your Kids, and You, Published: 2013
Mercer, Diana & Pruett, Marsha Kline. Your Divorce Advisor: A Lawyer and a Psychologist Guide You Through the Legal and Emotional Landscape of Divorce. New York: Fireside, 2001
Moore., Julia Hartley, Infidelity: Exploding the Myths, 2011
Neuman, M. Gary. Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way. New York: Random House, 1999
Newell, Elaine, When Your Long-Term Marriage Ends: A Workbook for Divorced Women, 1994
Les and Leslie Parrott, Your Time-Starved Marriage: How to Stay Connected at the Speed of Life, 2006
Pierce, Kevin, The Five Love Languages in 30 Minutes, August 6, 2013
Pema, Chodron, When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times, 2000
Pines, Ayala Malach. Falling in Love: Why We Choose the Lovers We Choose. New York: Routledge, 1999
Pittman, Frank. Private Lies: Infidelity and Betrayal of Intimacy. New York: W.W. Norton & Company, 1989
Raffel, Lee, Should I Stay or Go? How Controlled Separation Can Save Your Marriage, 1997
Ricci, Isolina. Mom’s House, Dad’s House: A Complete Guide for Parents Who Are Separated, Divorced, or Remarried. New York: Simon & Schuster Trade Paperbacks, 1997
Roxas, Kayla A., How to Save Your Marriage: Win Your Husband Back and Restore Your Marriage and Intimacy, 2013
Schaeffer, Brenda, Is It Love or Is It Addiction: The Book That Changed the Way We Think About Romance and Intimacy, Mar 27, 2009
Smalley, Erin, Little Book of Great Dates: 52 Creative Ideas to Make Your Marriage Fun, September 20, 2013
Douglas K. Snyder PhD, Donald H. Baucom PhD and Kristina Coop Gordon PhD, Getting Past the Affair: A Program to Help You Cope, Heal, and Move On — Together or Apart, Jan 6, 2007
Stark, Vikki, Runaway Husbands: The Abandoned Wife’s Guide to Recovery and Renewal, Feb 1, 2010
Sugarbaker, Geneva, Nice Women Get Divorced: The Conflicts & Challenges for Traditional Women, 1992
Schwarz, Robert and Braff, Elaine, We’re No Fun Anymore: Helping Couples Cultivate Joyful Marriages Through the Power of Play, 2012
Taylor, Maurice and McCee, Seana, The New Couple – Why the Old Rules Don’t Work and What Does, 2000
John VanEpp, How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk, 2006
Vaughan, Peggy, To Have and to Hold: A Personal Handbook for Building a Strong Marriage and Preventing Affairs, 2010
Wallerstein, Judith S., Blakeslee, Sandra, & Lewis, Julia M. Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: The 25 Year Landmark Study. New York: Hyperion, 2001
Weiner-Davis Michelle. The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage. New York: Simon & Schuster, 2001.
Whitehead, Barbara Dafoe, The Divorce Culture, 1997

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